CREATORS: The Tragic Abduction and Murder of Etan Patz is Back in the News

Matthew T. Mangino
CREATORS
August 5, 2025

In 1979, a 6-year-old boy disappeared on his way to his Manhattan school bus stop. Etan Patz's disappearance changed the way people parent, launching the missing and exploited children's movement. Patz was never found.

Thirty-three years later, Pedro Hernandez was arrested and charged by the Manhattan district attorney's office with second-degree murder and first-degree kidnapping.

According to The New York Times, "Hernandez was living in New Jersey when a relative told authorities that he suspected him of killing Etan. Prosecutors said that Mr. Hernandez had a history of sexually abusing a family member, drug use and domestic violence."

This arrest was high-profile. As one of the nation's most infamous child abductions, with an arrest decades after the crime, one would think the police would want to make sure everything was done by the book. Not in New York City.

The police elicited a confession from Hernandez after seven hours of questioning. That isn't particularly unusual, but the confession came before he was administered his Miranda warnings. After he confessed, he was mirandized by the police who had Hernandez repeat his confession on tape, according to court filings.

The New York Times reported, Hernandez's first trial in 2015 ended with a hung jury after 18 days of deliberation. The lone holdout said that his primary reason had been Hernandez's initial confession, which to the juror seemed "coerced."

In 2017, a second jury convicted Hernandez on the ninth day of deliberations. The jury foreman later remarked that "deliberations were difficult."

Last month, a federal court granted Hernandez a new trial.

A quarter-century after Patz disappeared, Americans were presented with a list of six crimes that could happen in their local communities. A CNN/USA Today/Gallup poll found that Americans expressed the greatest concern for their children being abducted and sexually molested.

Child abductions by strangers have consistently remained a concern for parents. Despite the more than 30,000 juveniles who are reported missing every year to the National Crime Information Center, it is rare for children to be abducted by strangers. Roughly 182 children were kidnapped by people outside their families in 2019, the latest year for which data is available, according to a study published in 2022 by the Department of Justice.

A 2023 Pew Research Center survey found nearly one-in-three U.S. parents with children younger than 18 say they are extremely or very worried about their children being abducted.

Etan's disappearance, the murders of Adam Walsh, Polly Klaas and JonBenet Ramsey ushered in, and fueled, an era of hyper-vigilance for parents. Parents' irrational fear of stranger danger changed the way parents care for their children, and the way children interact with adults and their peers for that matter. Politicians jumped on the stranger danger bandwagon. Starting with former President Ronald Reagan proclaiming the day Etan Patz disappeared, May 25, as National Missing Children's Day, politicians have enacted more and more draconian laws to deal with the sexual abuse and exploitation of children.

Hernandez's arrest and conviction for killing Etan should have provided some closure for a case that had extraordinary implications. His new trial will open wounds festering for 46 years. The upheaval could have been avoided.

Hernandez was arrested and tried in a cold case based on flimsy evidence devoid of any forensic evidence. Then investigators interviewed Hernandez without advising him of his rights. The police then read him his rights and interviewed him a second time, getting a second taped confession. This tactic flew in the face of a U.S. Supreme Court decision in 2004.

The Court, in a 5-4 decision, found the second confession inadmissible, particularly when the police strategy was to intentionally undermine the effectiveness of the Miranda warnings. That decision is the key to Hernandez's successful appeal and Etan Patz being back in the news.

Matthew T. Mangino is of counsel with Luxenberg, Garbett, Kelly & George P.C. His book The Executioner's Toll, 2010 was released by McFarland Publishing. You can reach him at www.mattmangino.com and follow him on Twitter @MatthewTMangino

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30,000 juveniles are reported missing annually, less than 200 abducted by strangers

It was 1979, and Nils Johnson-Shelton had a lot in common with a classmate named Etan Patz. Both were 6-year-old boys with bowl cuts, the sons of artists living in lofts in SoHo. They rode the same bus to the same elementary school, where they both attended first grade, reported The New York Times.

On the morning of May 25 that year, Etan went missing and was never found. His disappearance not only shocked New York City; it was later credited as the event that forever altered parenting, a word that had only recently entered the lexicon. From that terrible day, the notion that children in America should be left to their own devices — to run with their friends, climb trees, fall down, get up and keep running — changed. Parenting transformed, too, as mothers and fathers grew more intense, more fearful, more riddled with anxiety about threats, real and imagined, that children newly seemed to face.

“Etan’s case is foundational,” said John E. Bischoff III, a vice president at the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children. “It made parents more aware and concerned for their own children’s safety.”

The biggest change Mr. Johnson-Shelton recalls from his childhood was that he no longer rode the bus to school. Instead, he would clamber onto his father’s bike and the two of them would rattle across the cobblestone streets of TriBeCa.

“I was so young that I didn’t put the two together,” he said recently. It never occurred to him that the bike rides were a result of what had happened to Etan. “I just thought it was an awesome thing to do with my dad.”

Last week, after a federal appeals court reversed the conviction of Pedro Hernandez, a former bodega worker who was found guilty in 2017 of kidnapping and killing Etan, the case returned to the spotlight, inspiring a new round of conversations about how to raise children.

At Pier 51, a park along the Hudson River not far from the Patz family’s former home, the playground scene was vibrant last week as dozens of children played and their guardians kept vigilant watch. Parents and older siblings moved around their young charges like shadows, ready to jump and save any falling children before their heads hit the bouncy rubber playground floor.

Keshia Gerrits, who is originally from Amsterdam and is living in SoHo, watched her children, ages 4 and 6, run around. She wanted them to feel “a type of independence,” Ms. Gerrits, 34, said. “But only if I’ve got eyes on them.”

Little fear of kidnapping was evident. A sign outside the locked gate to the playground warned that adults were not permitted to enter without a child. Despite the more than 30,000 juveniles who are reported missing every year to the National Crime Information Center, a number that experts say is unreliable, it is rare for children to be abducted by strangers. Roughly 182 children were kidnapped by people outside their family in 2019, the latest year for which data is available, according to a study published in 2022 by the Department of Justice.

“I think that phenomenon is somewhat exaggerated,” said David Finkelhor, director of the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire and a co-author of the study.

But in the view of experts like Jessica McCrory Calarco, a sociologist at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, the lives of American parents and children have changed so drastically since the 1970s that it is impossible to peg such broad cultural shifts on the disappearance of a single boy nearly 50 years ago. People who study parenting culture argue that declining labor unions, rising income inequality, more women in the work force, the defunding of social programs and an increase in competition to win admission to top universities all contributed to a heightened belief among many parents that they alone were responsible for the welfare of their children.

“In the U.S., we put the burden on families, and especially mothers, to D.I.Y. a social safety net to keep their children safe from risk,” said Ms. McCrory Calarco, author of the 2024 book “Holding It Together: How Women Became America’s Safety Net.”

The ubiquity of smartphones has seemed to soften the divide between “helicopter” and “free-range” parents.Credit...Shuran Huang for The New York Times

Nonetheless, singular tragedies have proved far more galvanizing than broad socioeconomic trends. Anine Colaire was the mother of two children, ages 8 and 11, living in Portland, Ore., when she learned about the murder of Polly Klaas, a 12-year-old who was kidnapped from her home in Petaluma, Calif., in 1993. When relatives from California visited Ms. Colaire’s home, they criticized her for continuing to allow her children to walk to a nearby park and ride their bikes without adult supervision.

“The Polly Klaas case had a huge impact,” said Ms. Colaire, 64, whose children are now adults. “I had some relatives and friends with kids that were just scared to death to let their kids out of their sight.”

For Jennifer Pimentel, it was the abduction and murder in 1995 of 9-year-old Jimmy Ryce in Redland, Fla., that fundamentally changed her family’s approach to child safety. As an 8-year-old in nearby Miami at the time, she remembers that family trips to the mall or to her brother’s baseball practices became terrifying ordeals, as her mother labored to keep her children physically close at all times.

Three decades later, Ms. Pimentel has children of her own, and even though Jimmy’s killer, Juan Carlos Chavez, was executed in 2014 for the crimes, the fear remains. Every time her teenage son or daughter goes to a Starbucks or has a sleepover, Ms. Pimentel, her husband and all their friends demand constant electronic check-ins.

“We don’t have to talk about it,” she said. “It’s an unwritten agreement. We just do it.”

This intensive style, sometimes called “helicopter parenting,” was challenged by a different model, “free-range parenting,” in which adults strive to provide a base line of support and protection, while also giving children opportunities to explore, fail and learn on their own.

“I don’t blame parents for being terrified,” said Lenore Skenazy, author of the 2009 book “Free-Range Kids.” “I blame a culture that has gradually taught them that the most responsible way to parent is to basically conjure up Etan every time they’re deciding whether their kid can do anything on their own.”

Over time, the ubiquity of smartphones seemed to soften the divide between “helicopter” and “free-range” parents, as adults who favored either parenting style found themselves using apps like Life360 to keep constant tabs on their children — even as those phones and social media made children more vulnerable to bullies and predators.

As children in Lower Manhattan in the late 1970s, Vanessa Wyeth and Etan Patz attended each other’s birthday parties. When Etan disappeared, Vanessa and her father walked the neighborhood with Stanley Patz, Etan’s father, distributing fliers and asking for information about the missing boy.

For the next two years, Vanessa was terrified that a stranger would break into her bedroom window as she slept, even though the family lived in an apartment on the 20th floor. In part to help her feel less afraid, her parents moved the family in 1981 to Bangor, Maine, where she enjoyed more freedom to explore, she said.

Her experiences of fear and safety as a child caused her to raise her children, now 16 and 18, with a careful mix of independence and surveillance, Ms. Wyeth said.

“We want to know where our kids are in a way that I didn’t experience as a kid in Maine,” said Ms. Wyeth, 52, who returned to Manhattan and now lives in Chelsea. “But I think that has more to do with having cellphones than it does with having my childhood friend kidnapped.”

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The Cautionary Instruction: The danger is clear, the source a bit murky

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December 7, 2012

In 2005, when Americans were presented with a list of six crimes that could happen in their local communities, a CNN/USA Today/Gallup poll found that Americans expressed the greatest concern about child sexual molestation, with roughly two in three saying they are "very concerned" about the issue.

The growing unease about sex abuse is also reflected in two surveys taken four years apart in Massachusetts by Masskids, a nonprofit child advocacy organization. In 2003, fewer than half of Massachusetts residents said they would be willing to participate in training to learn about child sexual abuse and how to prevent it. By 2007, two-thirds of residents said they would be willing.

Parental anxiety seems to be on the rise even as the rate of child sexual abuse is falling. Data from the National Child Abuse and Neglect Data System showed that the rate of substantiated child sexual abuse dropped 62 percent between 1992 and 2010, from 150,000 cases to 63,000 cases.

This trend corresponds with the general feelings of Americans about crime. Despite a sharp decline in the United States' violent crime rate since the mid-1990s a majority of Americans continue to believe the nation's crime problem is getting worse. In 2011, 68 percent say there is more crime in the U.S. than there was a year ago, 17 percent say less, and 8 percent believe that crime is unchanged.

That is why Sandra Hagen Solin’s comment to the Denver Post in 2010 came as no surprise. Solin told the Post, "I know on a couple of occasions, I've woken up because I think, 'Is the door locked?'" She added, "Someone could come in and swipe my son. It has happened."

The fear of child abductions has taken the same course as child molestation and crime generally. In 1999, a nationwide study found that there were only 115 stereotypical child abductions, including 81 kidnappings that were by a total stranger and 34 that were by a slight acquaintance. Forty percent of the children in those stereotypical kidnappings were killed. Statistics, often cited since then, report that only about 50 children throughout the country each year are abducted and murdered by a stranger.

Today, the link between child abduction and sexual crimes has become better understood. Threats to a child have been shown to be less likely to come from "stranger danger" than from family and friends. The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) continues to encourage parents to adhere to the organization’s national child safety campaign.

Keeping children safe is best achieved by focusing on real and likely dangers. Sometimes those dangers are close to home and at the hand of those we know and love. That is an unpleasant fact that children need to know.

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Child Abductions Fall, Fear Continues to Climb

According to the Denver Post, reports of missing children have plummeted — both in Colorado and nationally. Efforts to more accurately classify the cases have made some progress, but organizations from law enforcement to advocacy groups still put the largest, though sometimes misleading, numbers front and center. As abductions dip fear continues to rise.

"Emphasizing missing children is a holdover from that (1980s) period and not the best way to approach these problems," says David Finkelhor, director of the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire.

"The largest portion of the so-called missing children issue is runaway kids. To lump them into a problem that's largely a police problem has always been a question of whether you're mixing apples and oranges. They got lumped together in part because they gave heft to the numbers."

In the '80s, those weighty numbers gave political clout to an emerging issue. Even in decline, they remain attention-grabbers. The media, particularly 24 hour cable news networks, run with the exceedingly rare stories of abducted children. A child is abducted in San Diego and parents in New Hampshire ran and lock their doors.

The Denver Post's stories by reporters Louis Kilzer and Diana Griego in 1985 debunked the "national paranoia" surrounding missing kids, won a Pulitzer Prize and led to changes in the way organizations approached the issue.

A quarter-century later, authorities have a more clearly defined, technologically equipped and well-organized response to such cases. And yet, some experts say, parental anxiety over child safety has only intensified.

Stranger danger has resulted in an onslaught of legislation aimed at the imaginary predator who snatches up children for sexual gratification and torture. THe incidence of stranger abduction is rare. In Colorado for instance, since the establishment of the Amber Alert system in 2002, there have been only four alerts of stranger abductions. A 1999 nationwide survey found out of 800,000 children reported missing only 115 were considered stranger abductions.

The greatest danger for children comes from within the confines of their very homes or from extended family and friends who are responsible for most sex offenses against children.


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Congress Ignores I.R.S. Regulation Denying Information to Missing Children Investigators

The government has data that could be helpful in tracking down thousands of missing children across the country. However, existing federal tax laws prohibit the disclosure of the information.

The Internal Revenue Service says that taxpayer privacy laws severely restrict the release of information from tax returns. According to the New York Times, privacy laws enacted a generation ago to prevent Watergate-era abuses of confidential taxpayer information brought about the restrictions.

The Congress has enacted specific exceptions allowing the I.R.S. to turn over information in child support cases and to help federal agencies determine whether an applicant qualifies for income-based federal benefits. However, Congress has refused to act on missing children. Information that would be helpful in tracking down child abductors is apparently off-limits.

The I.R.S. would be of little help in finding a child abducted by strangers. Stranger abductions are exceedingly rare. The I.R.S. can be helpful in the case of family abductions. According to the Times, about 200,000 family abductions are reported each year in the United States, most of which stem from custody disputes between estranged spouses. About 12,000 last longer than six months, according to Justice Department statistics reported by the Times, and involve parental abductors who assume false identities and travel the country to escape detection.

As unlikely as it may seem, a significant number of adults responsible for family abductions file federal tax returns. The Times reported that a 2007 Treasury Department study examined the Social Security numbers of 1,700 missing children and the relatives suspected of abducting them, and found that more than a third had been used in tax returns filed after the abductions took place.

Those addresses could be used by investigators to rescue abducted children. Yet, the I.R.S. will not provide the confidential taxpayer information. A federal judge in Virginia agreed with the I.R.S. and refused to issue an order authorizing the I.R.S. to turn over the addresses to law enforcement authorities.

It is beyond comprehension that the Congress cannot carve out an exception to the tax code to enable the I.R.S. to assist law enforcement agencies locate missing and abducted children. Missing children’s advocates see the I.R.S. data as a potentially powerful resource. “There are hundreds of cases this could help solve,” Cindy Rudometkin of the Polly Klaas Foundation told the Times, “And even if it helped solve one case — imagine if that child returned home was yours.”

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